Who has woes? Whose life would end up being ruined? Who nurses depression, guilt and condemnation? Anyone who mistaken lust for love will definitely suffer these, especially the female folks!
I feel so sorry for lots of ladies who believe their so-called boyfriend is really in love with them. Many have been deceived to believe that they’re loved only to see the outcome of such love to have destroyed their life.
It’s never difficult to know if a guy is truly in love with you but many do not know this. Are you so sure he’s in love with you? Here are the simple things he will do if he’s in lust with you.
1. He pretends to be in love
What other good does an average man who is not genuinely born again, note that, wants in a lady? He will pretend he ‘loves’ you so that you can open up your heart to him. Once he warms his way into your heart, he can have access to your vagina and lure you into sex.
That he spends so much on you, gifts you, show so much care, gives you all the attention you needed doesn’t mean he ‘loves’ you, he’s up to something which you’re probably ignorant of.
Pretense is the game of guys to make a woman believe they’re in love. Once he gets what he wants, he would stop to pick your calls and even when he picks it, you’re nothing but a stranger to him.
Don’t be blind, love isn’t blind but lust.
2. He wants your body
There are many first kiss that some ladies had that opened up their lives to the pool of sexual immoralities.
A guy that truly loves you will never touch you body until the appropriate time. He’s never old-fashioned but morally balanced to know what’s right or wrong.
He has blood running through his veins but he’s able to possess his body in honor and in the fear of God. Hardly would you find such men but the truth is that they exist.
But it’s a pity that lots of ladies wants guys that would make them feel like a woman when they’re not married. No one holds fire in their bosom and wouldn’t have their clothes burned.
3. He wants to have sex as soon as possible
If you haven’t given him what he wants, you’ll be the sugar in is tea but once he get want he wants, you’ll become a pain in his ass.
Deny a guy sex, you’ll be everything to him. Give him as much as he wants, you’ll end up becoming a whore to him.
When a guy hasn’t have access to your vagina, he’ll be after you but once he’s able to satisfy his sexual urge, you’ll be the one running after him.
Be careful ladies because some of you might still end up as victims. Guard your heart (emotion) with all diligence and don’t let a guy ‘lust’ his way into it. Many of them are in lust, only a tiny fraction are in love.
An adulterated form of love is lust which many people practice. A guy would pretend he loves you just to get what he wants from you.
A guy that’s in lust with you wants your body. He might pretend to be in ‘love’ but as soon as you’re emotionally connected to him, hardly would he be able to get his hands off you.
Prior to sexual intercourse, he wants to kiss you, fondle your breast, hold your waist or create an opportunity to ‘romance’ you if you give him that opportunity. Don’t be deceived!
A Yoruba adage or common saying states that, “Ere ki laja nba ekun se”, meaning that what kind of relationship will a Lion have with a dog. Isn’t it to devour it when he’s hungry?
The same goes for every lady that’s having a boyfriend. I reserve no apology for saying that. All your boyfriend wants from you is nothing but S-E-X.
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guide your life with the principles of God. and let the holy spirit lead you in ur relationship. As many that has fall victim, as you find your ways back to jesus, He will heal your wound make you a virtues lady.
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