The essential part of a man or woman is said to be the substance they possess. When it comes to life and relationship, each of us have one thing or the other that is very precious to us. But little did many know of these substance which they eventually abuse due to their ignorance. Just like the prodigal son, many singles, both male and female had wasted their lives on a relationship they ignorantly believe it would lead to marriage, only to wake up and realize their folly. Having spent much of their substance on a frivolous relationship, they end up in regret, wishing they had not done it. Check that relationship you’re presently into which you’re not sure of its fate, are you making the wise use of your life or you’re destroying it all for lust?
What constitutes the substance of your life?
Time is irrevocable, once it’s wasted, it’s gone for life. The only time to correct your time in life is to make wise use of it now.
Thank God for internet-enabled phones, it has brought much harm than good to many singles. A lot of singles now chat into the wee hours of the night without achieving anything valuable to their life. Some spend time by surfing the web for irrelevant gossip site, while their lives slip off per seconds. On the other hand, some are investing (wasting) their time on a relationship that would lead no where only to realize later that it would have been much invested in something productive.
Don’t waste your time on a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship that won’t lead to anywhere. Conserve your time to develop yourself. Spend little time pursuing pleasure and more of it on the discovery and fulfillment of your purpose in life. Once you waste your time, it will never be regained. And if you try to do what you should have done in the past today, it becomes too late and irrelevant.
God has entrusted riches to some people right from their youthful age but only few are wise enough to make the best use of it. That you’re fortunate to be blessed financially or you have a wealthy parent doesn’t mean you should squander your resources on a pleasure-driven relationship.
I'm In A Relationship: Don't Waste Your Substance. Why would you sponsor a lady or man to school with the hope of marrying them off when they graduate? Home videos should have teach some people lessons but they won’t learn.
It would never work. A large percentage of such relationship usually end up in betrayal and heart break.
It is good to be generous but it’s stupidity to make blind financial commitment to a relationship that’s going nowhere.
Spend your money wisely and use it to invest in yourself: career, talent or purpose. You’ll reap the benefits someday than to cast your pearls to dogs that would end up destroying you.
Before you come up with a bitter tale about the gender that gave you a bad experience, spend wisely.
A lot of singles believes that they own their bodies and can use it anyhow as they so wish. Little did they know that they are made of dust and would return there as they’d give an account of the works they did in their body. Hence in this regard, many, especially the ladies have abused themselves with the opposite sex due to their failure of knowing the purpose their bodies serve.
They offer their bodies as a ‘sacrifice’ for lust only to realize later when the relationship failed that it wasn’t worth it in the first place.
If you give your bodies as a means for sexual immoralities, expect that it’s nothing but a leftover of the multiple partners you’ve had. Your so-called boyfriend will not appreciate your body unlike how your husband would. So why waste the essential part of your life on frivolities?
Ask many ladies who were victims of failed relationship, they usually have one common tale, “I wished I had never given him my body”.
So before you’d end up becoming a victim in that relationship, don’t waste your time, monies and bodies on a relationship whose fate you don’t know. Quit all the trial and error relationship and conserve your time, energies to the right channel – serve God. You don’t have any regret for giving God your time, honor Him with your body and give Him the whole of your heart. But regrets ain’t far-fetched when you give your boyfriend or girlfriend. Trust me, it’s true!
Run a check on your relationship, are you wasting your substance? Think and make wise decision now that it’s not too late.
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