Everyone needs to love and be loved. Love is just something that you can’t do without in life. If it’s not in relationship, it will be in other things you’re so passionate about.
But there’s a life that’s so common to everyone, it is their love life. A part of them that needs the opposite sex for a relationship. At this junction, many people get it wrong and come up with lots of terrible experiences about love.
Some would even end up with a generalized statement about the gender that does them bad. Is love wicked? Is love a pack of puzzle that cannot be solved?
I have clearly discovered that for these two reasons, you will encounter problems with the opposite sex in your love life.
1. Lack of understanding about love
It’s so bad to hear people describe love as ‘feelings‘, ’emotions’ or based on what they saw in the movies or see people do. Don’t get me wrong, emotions and feelings are needed for love but they’re not the overall essence of love.
Love is not in kissing or in public display of affection. Love is not in sex or in sexual immoralities. Love is not all about attention or attraction. It is not even that butterfly feelings in your belly or sleepless night that you experience, love is more than these.
Two Unavoidable Reasons Why You Will Encounter Problems In Your Love Life When you have a poor understanding of love, you can’t escape the consequence of your shallow mentality about it. How can you excel in a project that sc you’re not adequately prepared for?
The real understanding of love can ONLY be found in the nature and personality of God. Believe you me, nobody can describe, define or express love to you if it lack divine touch.
God is love and love is God. God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son (John 3:16). That’s sacrifice! And that whosoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life, that’s commitment.
Many people think love is about giving, hence they give what would ruin their life and destiny. How can you give your body to him for sex as a proof for love? That’s crazy! God didn’t give man what would affect Him. Giving him or her an opportunity to ruin your life isn’t love but stupidity of the highest order!
2. Expressing it with the wrong partner
That God loved the world doesn’t mean He committed Himself to all the people in the world. He’s only committed to those who believe in Him and these are the people that would not perish in life and hereafter.
When you express sincere love to the wrong person, you don’t need any prophet to tell you that your life will be doomed.
Who’s a wrong person? A wrong person is someone who doesn’t share the same value as you do relating to sexual purity, integrity, honesty, contentment and so on.
2 Unavoidable Reasons Why You Will Encounter Problems In Your Love Life Only a wrong person will tell you to express love to him or her through premarital or extramarital sex. A wrong person will exert a negative influence on your destiny no matter how you ‘burn’ up yourself for love.
This is why many, especially ladies would say, “I gave him my body, money and life, yet he ruined it”. And the male folks would lament that she’s never the woman they thought they married. Problems will abound in your love life if you express love to the wrong person. Until you find the right partner, you can’t experience love the way you ought to. And mind you, you can’t find the right person through dating, cohabiting or through any means the world system pushes to you.
It takes God’s guidance to know the right person and it takes working to improve on yourself to become the right person. Check your love life, do you have the true understanding of what love is all about? Anyone that doesn’t love God cannot love you better. It doesn’t matter if he goes to church, pastor in a church or becomes actively involved in a religious setting, he will abuse what love is.
A person that doesn’t know how acid look like will mistaken it for another thing. You must know what love is so that you can tell when lust is expressed to you. Moreover, to have a deep understanding of love, meditate on 1 Corinthians 13:1-8. Importantly, have God’s nature in you so that you can love like God. Do you want your love life to be hassle free? Know the truth about love, for it shall set you free from bondage and problems many encounter in their relationship and strive to love the right partner.
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