4 Reasons Why You Must Not Awake Love Until The Right Time

flames of loveThere’s time for everything under the heavens, so says the Holy Bible. There’s a time to love and a time to refrain from loving. When you embrace love at the wrong time and with the wrong person, you’ll have a negative story to tell about love.

Love is a nature and it is God’s personality. A shallow understanding of this simple truth has driven lots of people into practicing lust in their relationship which leaves them with regrets.

To those who feel everything about love centers on feelings, I’ll bluntly tell you this, love has more to do than an eruption of feelings or a longing for emotional intimacy. It is a nature that is expressed between two people which would definitely improve their life and relationship.

Why do you need not to awaken the desire to love in you, I mean love between opposite sex which is geared towards marriage or a life long commitment? Before you do so, understand these truth!

1. You need to be mature
Maturity has nothing to do with age, education or exposure, it’s got more to do with experience and wisdom.
Many young chap who entered into a relationship immature are mostly vulnerable to the consequence of relationship issues.
It takes maturity and understanding to handle the challenges of a love relationship. It is lack of emotional maturity that would make you to be a control freak, base your happiness on your partner and become overly jealous.
When there’s lack of emotional maturity, it’ll become easy for you two to cross the boundary and become sexually intimate. Only a mature mind will know that the expression of love has nothing to do with premarital sex.
Are you mature enough to handle the commitment of love? Until you are, I’ll advice you not to do so, so that you won’t expose yourself to bitter consequence.

2. It is demanding
Who says a love relationship is all about fun as depicted in movies or novels? A serious love relationship is demanding and it requires lots of work – emotional, financial, mental, spiritual and material commitment.

An ignorance of this fact usually make lots of people to jump in and out of a relationship where there’s need for commitment. For instance, a man wouldn’t want to be part of the ‘baking process’ in a relationship but would only want to eat the icing on the cake. Likewise a woman too wants the ‘ingredients’ without involving in the making process.
A love relationship demands your time, energies and resources otherwise it wouldn’t work. And if certain areas of your life hasn’t been established, it’ll make no sense to commit your heart to a love relationship.

Remember, purpose comes before the need of a partner.

3. Do the right thing at the right time
A right thing done at the wrong time makes the whole thing wrong. And a wrong thing done at the right time is also wrong. It takes understanding to know when to do the right thing at the right time and ignorance or folly to do the wrong thing at the right time.

A man who’s got no bearing for his life and destiny doesn’t need a love relationship, all he needs is to work to improve the condition of his life before he desire an intimate relationship.

Adam wasn’t busy looking for a soul mate, but he was deeply engrossed in fulfilling God’s purpose for his life. Some people needs to set their career straight, become financially independent and buoyant, sharpen their potentials, master their skill and to intimate themselves with God. But sadly enough, this kind of people neglect the major thing to chase shadows in life. Are you doing the right thing at this time for your life? Discover your identity. Know your purpose before you burden yourself with the demands of a love relationship at the wrong time.

4. You need the right person
Most people, in a bid to find the right partner, usually awaken love in a time they’re not meant to. The likes of dating and all sorts doesn’t help you to know what love is.
When you express love with the wrong person, you’ll have a bitter tale to tell about love. The right person wouldn’t lead you to violate God’s law but the wrong person will encourage you to do so.
Even if you know all you ought to know about love, if you’re not careful, becoming yoked together with an unbeliever who doesn’t believe in your knowledge of love, he will ruin your life.

See, it is normal to feel loved and to desire its expression with the opposite sex but when you rouse it at the wrong time, without being able to handle it’s demands and with the wrong person, you’ll definitely have much to regret. Until you’re ready to pay the price for a successful love relationship and with the right person and at the right time, don’t awaken the desire for love.