BEWARE OF FOOLISH MEN

God created man to act and think like Him and to fulfill His purpose on earth, however, Adam manifested that function before the fall. Nevertheless, there are still some men who pay the price to function in that capacity. These are real men indeed. They are men of purpose, value, dignity and vision. They know how to treat females and would not play with their heart. God created man to be monogamous and real men don’t have the time to “double or multiple date”. They’ve got better things to pursue than to play such a useless game. Do not be deceived to believe that God created man to be polygamous in nature. He said, “a man shall leave…and cleave to his wife”, not wives. Such philosophy is an opportunity to give ignorant men the avenue to disobey God’s command.

A man is a man when he has manners and respect for a lady but he becomes a fool when he thinks with his manhood or dance to the tune of his urge. Who says that sex is an expression of love or that sex keeps a relationship going or perhaps would keep him for you? These two statements are words of foolishness frequently used to bait ignorant ladies so that you can be entangled with him in an ungodly relationship.

Who is a foolish man? They are commonly called, “players”, “giggolos”, “manfriend”, “playboys” or “boyfriends”. A responsible man cannot have these degrading name tags. Dear sisters, you have to be very careful so that you don’t fall into their net. They are wolves in sheep’s clothing. They will pretend for long so that they can get down on you even sisters-in-the-lord are not spared from their deceit. In fact, they will attend church or fellowship in other to lure innocent ladies.
Be sensitive! Don’t be cajoled by his “empty promises” or “sugar-coated words”. His major aim is to access your sacred parts and include you on his list of useless girls. He is not attracted to you by your innate potentials but by your shape, looks and physical endowments. For the fact that he attends church services does not mean he’s born again or saved. Moreover, must church attendees are “actors” and “actresses”. He can twist the scripture to serve his purpose or pretend to be spirit-filled so that you can fall for his deception.

Check out the company of friends he keeps. Are his friends purpose-driven or pleasure-driven? He that loves pleasure is dead while he lives (1 Tim. 5:6). However, he that walks with the wise shall be wise but the company of fools shall be destroyed. Don’t let him add you to the company of fools that he already has their lives destroyed. Show me his friends and I can tell you his true personality.

Fools will introduce sex into the relationship barely few months or years you met. He does so, so as to gratify himself. A responsible man will not start his relationship with sex but ask for how he can serve you and not service you sexually. Foolish relationships are built on lies, deceit or flattering. A fool will always tell you lies since that is his language. He cuddles, pets, necks, caresses or touch your privies because that is what he wants and not your commitment.

A fool is not committed to you, your life or future; but he is committed to making you fill his sexual appetite every time he wants it. He will buy you expensive gifts occasionally (an investment waiting to be consumed) because he has a purpose driving him. He knows the key that turns women on and once he discovers yours, he uses it at will. Don’t let him get nearer to your heart but bury your heart in God’s word. If he does so, he will break it and tear it apart leaving you to face the daring consequence of emotional trauma.
Dear sisters, a fool will remain a fool no matter how you want to change him. You cannot get him converted, so don’t believe that would happen when you marry him. He has no plan for himself, let alone you. When you walk with a foolish man, you’ll be trapped in his folly. Love is not blind. Only a fool will say this and make you to believe his lies. There are also the married foolish men. Once their wives refuse them sex or there’s a quarrel, they will be on the chase for young ladies. They will shower you with lots of cares and affections. They will treat you better than they do to their wives so that you can fill their urge. They will not be ashamed to make you their second wife if you are foolish enough to get pregnant for them. Some would even give you lots of money to sponsor an abortion so that you can continually give it to them at will. Why waste away with someone else’s husband? Why don’t you be an helper for your own husband rather than to be a sex mistress for another woman’s husband?

A fool is not matured enough to keep his relationship going without sex. His profession of “I love you” is to deceive you. Please ladies, see beyond the phrase and know what his true motives are. Once you cannot satisfy him, he will get someone else to do it. He will tell you that virginity is not a dignity but a lack of opportunity. Fools will make you to believe the myths about sexual purity so that you can dance to their tune. My dear, don’t give your pearls to swines.
Lots of benefits are gotten when you are sexually pure. No evil soul ties, no issue of single motherhood caused by unpreparedness for motherhood, no transfer of Spiritually or Sexually Transmitted Diseases, no exchange of evil blood covenants, no unwanted pregnancies, no delay to your progress in life, no guilt or bitterness, no abortions which is murder and other consequential actions.
In case you are tempted to give him your body, simply ask yourself this question before you do; “what would Jesus do?” Your body does not belong to him but your husband so don’t let him mess up your life.

There are still some Deborahs, Queen Esther, Virgin Mary, Four daughters of Philip and You who would not bow to a foolish man’s sexual dictate. Disagree with his lies that everybody is doing it and endeavor to remain sexually pure. There are lots of benefits in remaining sexually pure. It is better to give a responsible man your God-given gift than to give a fool who would not appreciate it or you.

No amount of revoking would stop him once he has unstrapped your bra. Likewise, no amount of “stop it” would make him stop it once his testosterone is charged. His muscles will become stronger than yours when he’s fully charged.
Flee away from the appearance of evil and be careful of foolish men. If you are friends with a man that does not add value to your life, he will take away something valuable from you. It is better not to be in a relationship than to be in a regrettable, sinful or destructive one.

MY DEAR SISTER, RUN AWAY FROM FOOLISH MEN.