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One Thing No One Would Ever Tell You About Love (Must Read)

Facts about love you dont know ,Have you ever wondered why love seem to be a complex thing in life? Have you ever found an answer to why it’s often misunderstood and wrongly expressed, yet many still ‘fall’ blindly into it? Is love really wicked, doesn’t exist, crazy or doesn’t cost a thing?
If you need an answer to all these questions, patiently read through as you discover the truth no one would ever tell you about love.
I myself didn’t know about this truth despite my ‘great’ knowledge about relationship issues until God revealed it to me. I have been once guilty about it and faced its consequence of a shallow understanding of love. But thank God, the Father of all lights in whom there’s no shadow of variableness who unfolded this truth I’d share with you. Remember, we know in part and you cannot know it all – except God.
The truth I discovered about love is found in Romans eight verse thirteen, “If you live (love) after the flesh, you will die…” I purposely kept love there as revealed.
Do you remembered that God told Adam that if he eats out of the fruit He told him not to eat, he’ll surely die? Did he die a natural death? No, but his eyes were opened and he was exposed to the human nature, corrupted by the serpent. Let me not take you into theology so that I don’t bore you but let’s go straight to the point. There’s a love that is after the flesh and there’s a love that loves like God. The former is motivated by feeling emanating from the flesh but the latter comes from God’s nature, motivated by His spirit (Zech. 4:6).
The love after the flesh brings destruction such as premarital sex, sexually transmitted diseases, single motherhood (baby mama), unwanted pregnancy, abortion and the likes because it emanates from the sinful nature of the flesh. So when you love according to the dictates of your human nature, except destruction because it cannot better your life. truth you dont know about loveThe love after the flesh will waste your life, ruin your destiny and destroy you, while it leaves a scar in your life. This is the kind of love most people practice in their relationship. Loving after the flesh is non-sacrificial but selfish. It wants to be satisfied, it wants to be pleased but not to better the life of the other.
When you love after the flesh, your joy is stolen, because it’s centered on pleasing him or her alone; it kills you softly and destroys your life gradually as time ticks away. There’s always a consequence awaiting you when you love after the flesh. What else would you expect from a lady that proves love to her boyfriend on a platter of premarital sex? No other thing that regrets – heart break, guilt and condemnation! bitter loveWhat is the fate of a relationship where you’re kissing, petting, caressing, fondling each other’s body, engaging in erotic conversations on social media platforms and so on, yet you call it love? It would surely destroy you before you’d realize the truth.
May I tell you this? Christian brothers and sisters are not exempted from loving after the flesh. This is why you can see a brother or sister behave like an unbeliever when it comes to love matters. A professing Christian brother can double date or lure you into sex and a professing Christian sister can cheat on you.
A love that is motivated by the flesh will abuse you verbally, sexually or physically while it believes nothing is wrong with it. Loving after the flesh will cheat on you no matter how you satisfy him or her. A man/woman that is married to you can also love you according to the flesh. This is why many married couples have issues in their marriages – cheating, physical abuse and the likes. Without a love that comes from God which is mutually expressed, issues will abound in your marriage.

Are you ready to enjoy the best form of love? You must become God’s child to love like God, without this, you can’t love like Him even if the best relationship coach tutors you. Unlearn all the forms of love you know and begin to learn the truth about God’s kind of love.