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A Word For Christian Sisters On Whom To Marry “I left the world in search for a godly husband to marry hoping to be safe in where I’m running to.

  Disappointed was I when I found out in the church that even among the children of God, there are wicked and cruel people.

  Where would I turn to for help? The world, nay; the church, I’m perturbed. I’d rather depend on God’s guidance  than to look on the physical as man sees” – Anonymous

Marriage is a lifelong commitment which requires lots of processes in having a successful one. Beyond the glamor of the wedding day and romantic honeymoon, there’s more to it.

It’s like most of the onus of looking for whom to marry lies on the female folks. Sadly enough, the blame of a bad marriage is sometimes on them. But the truth is that a woman bears more pain in a bad relationship.

To my dear Christian sisters who are looking for whom to marry, you need to read this. I know some would have lived a ‘rough’ life while single or in their teenage years, but when it’s time to settle down for marriage, they’ll find succor in the church.

And to those who haven’t had it rough, who are termed ‘naive’, you really have to be careful so you don’t fall into the hands of deceivers.

Some sisters are easily carried away when they see how “Spiritual gim gim” a brother is. How he leads the choir, directs the music, plays the musical instrument, speaks in tongues, interprets the scripture or the gifts he possess doesn’t make him the right man for you if God hasn’t said anything.

Don’t marry a man if you haven’t heard from God. It’s never worth it! Some brothers are deceitful and don’t mind playing games with your life. They are wolves in sheep’s clothing and it’s after they get what they want before you’d know their real intent.

How anointed he is doesn’t mean he’s the right one. Don’t be carried away by the ‘phys-spiritual‘ package he has. Anointing without character or the fear of God is nothing but a trash.

Never allow emotions cloud your senses. Get solutions from God on your knees than to make decisions based on the euphoria of the moment.
It’s not enough that the pastor says ‘God says‘ he’s right. Be personally convinced or guided by God because your pastor might not be there when storms arise in the future.

Don’t buy love or get a man’s attention by the luxuries you have. You’ll only get the attention of the greedy ones or players. Let God direct your path rather than orchestrate things for yourself.

I know how emotional you are. Why don’t you first hand over that emotions to God who wouldn’t exploit you than to get so emotional when looking for whom to marry and be confused in life.

If you buy the wrong pair of shoe, it’s better because you can either change it or get another one. This is not the same thing as marrying the wrong man. Even if you consider separation or divorce which God frowns at, the scar may not be erased for life.

Desire an intimate relationship with God long before the need for a partner. If you don’t hear God before the need to get a partner, it’ll be difficult to hear Him clearly when the time comes.

There are deceivers in the house of God, be prayerful, patient and let God guide you before you accept a proposal from anyone that propose. Be double sure that the sail is clear before you set out on the marital voyage.

Remember, a wise woman needs the support of a wise man to build the house (home). Don’t just look for a man to be married to, be sure you’re marrying the right man according to His leading